Relationship issues.....?

i think at this point, if marriage and a family is what you really want and he is not willing to give it to you then perhaps it's time to prioritize? sounds like you've talked to him already but marriage and a family are deal breakers, i think. maybe ask him how much longer? it's really unfair that he is leading you on like this with a potential marriage. but you also have to protect yourself because what if he never wants to get married? what if he decides one day that he doesn't? then you would have waited for nothing. maybe try talking to him and expressing more firmly that marriage is what you want and if he can't give you a definitive answer then you have to look to someone else. while you may love him, marriage is a big deal. it's not about a toaster or about something silly. if he can't offer you one of the biggest things you want then what would be your purpose of waiting? besides that you love him and he's a good guy.